First things first; we have to agree that you want to do the right thing. The trouble is that you don’t always know what the right thing is. And the reason why you don’t always know what the right thing is, is because nobody has ever told you what the right thing is. Probably what happened is that you were really good at doing __________. (You fill in the blank and we’ll call it droxing for the purpose of this discussion.) In fact, many who you have worked with consider you